Saturday, 24 January 2009

Child who launches a violent racist attack on a young girl gets...........Rewarded!

You see back in April, we knew something was wrong in the way they were working and that is why we kept a log. I puposely kept it to the main points, not much emotion (Court's do not do emotions - just facts), wrote down times of calls etc. My husband also kept one which I will post soon. An important thing I have also noticed is God help kids at the weekend - because as you see Social Services do not 'do' weekends. Kids and families' problems must end early Friday evening and they are not allowed to resume until Monday morning. That's so the SS can have a well deserved rest after breaking up a family - it's a tough job but someone has to do it - I mean we don't want to promote happy, normal family life, it's simply no good for our career. You can just picture it now - feet up, glass of wine, a lonely existence, hey but what the heck, a nice bonus for their target figures.

Now back to the issue, not one person (except from us) has told my son his behaviour was disgraceful - in fact Social Services paid for him to go to a football club as a treat, now does that not send out mixed messages to an adolescent? So, instead of punishing him, were we supposed to say 'now, I loved the way you aimed your spit directly into her face, also you showed great multi-tasking skills as you hit her and at the same time called her a "f___ing muslim"', you know - the finding of good in everything they do? Well I'm sorry but I can't, I have nothing but disgust for his behaviour, it was inexcusable and not something he sees at home. So where is he learning this type of behaviour? - the only place that it can be is at school - so thank you for my son's new found skills they will get him far in life.

Over the last few months I have noticed that the education system is just as bad at dealing with 'bad behaviour'. No wonder you have a minority of students attacking teachers, they have no discipline or respect. The times have long gone where a teacher was in charge and the pupil's followed and we as a society have allowed this to happen. Why do school's have anti-bullying policies when they fail to adhere to them? When a child is identified as a problem, address the matter immediately, don't look for excuses or come out with statement's such as he's bullying children more vulnerable than himself so that's OK.


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One Day said...

I would just like to say that oddly enough that was just what my husband did the day before on the 2nd of April 2008, just to be met with a dismissal - again (he tried mentioning his behaviour before).

I have held back a comment just submitted - if you ever need someone to talk to - I'm here - just put a contact email and I'll get in touch, I may be able to help in some small way.

One Day said...

I would also like to say that the Independent States Complaints Panel is a total waste of time - I have been waiting since August 2008 since appealing their dismissal of my complaint - saying - get a lawyer.

One Day said...

Also a waste of time is making a complaint to the Minister of Health and Social Services, it will get passed down until it reached the 'Head of Social Services', then she will stop it. If you complain at ground level - expect to be told 'bring it all on'. I have quite a collection of letters and not one has done a thing. If you want to complain about a Social Worker, visit the website of the General Social Care Council - go to the section 'check the register', there enter the social worker's name, press search. It gives you the procedure to follw to get a complaint's form etc.

One Day said...

I believe there is a complaint's cloud with my name on it over Jersey and with it a statement - 'to be dealt with one day'.